Young Swingers® Week

Young Swingers® Week

The Original... Beware of Imitations.

Sex Because Hosts
  • Sensory Deprivation - Sensation Play
  • Erotic Spanking and Impact Play
  • Bondage and Restraints
  • Threesomes Solved: Tips & Techniques
  • Fantasy talk and RolePlay - The Art of Dirty Talk: Tips and Techniques

Erotic Spanking and Impact Play


In this class, SexBecause with Charlie and Arienne discuss and demonstrate how couples can add spankings and restraints to their bedroom. Exploring a wide range of sensations, with or without pain, the lustful energy created in the newly built Hedo Dungeon should be both intense and creative.

Attendees have the opportunity to demonstrate scenes with their partner. With an emphasis on consent, communication, safe-words and sensual aftercare, all SexBecause workshops emphasis connection and discovery as much as the climactic response which can be inevitable. When a couple is able to free their mind and expose themselves to sensory related experiences, the result can be mind blowing. The Erotic Spanking workshop is a great introduction for the curious couples and the experienced couples alike.

SexBecause encourages couples to take what they've learned and continue scenes after the workshops. Kink gear, restraints, and spanking tools can be found at

Sensory Deprivation workshop for couples (limited space 10-15 couples)

sensory deprivation

One of the hottest characteristics is that it isn’t all about pain. Many practitioners that enjoy the power exchange aspects of kink prefer an approach that is gentle, mixing multiple sensations and limiting others. This opens the door for intimate exploration for the couple or all parties involved.

In this workshop, Charlie and Arienne keep the numbers to a small group, encouraging couples to get to know the other couples that will be attending as well as exploring with their partner in a safe environment.

Using food, blindfolds, candles and a few other surprises, it's all about couples choice and the discovery of what pleases and pushes boundaries. Lighter and less painful interactions involving nonverbal communication, rubbing, licking, leading to more advanced techniques are important when building trusting power exchange relationships. Combining other elements of kink such as bondage and restraints is also a practical next step in sensation play and these are explored as well.

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Charlie & Arienne

New Book by Charlie and Arienne: "Fifty Shades of Maybe"

Fifty Shades of Maybe Book

Fifty Shades of Maybe investigates and allows you to create new avenues within the intimate world of kink. With 50 entertaining, easy to read chapters that end with companion videos 5-6 minutes in length, Fifty Shades of Maybe allows you to enjoy kink possible excitement at your own pace. With helpful tips on how to discover and discuss with your partner new ways to explore and enough information to satisfy even the most advanced practitioner, it keeps the details informative and fun. From Erotic Spanking, Gear, Weekend Contracts, to Public Exhibitionism tips, it has you covered.

Created by kink friendly therapists (can you tell by the cover?) who are also a couple who understand the road to exploration in the bedroom may need a roadmap that’s not intimidating. This book is a collection of questions and answers inspired by their workshops around the world and situations they have enjoyed in and outside of their own bedroom.

Pick up your copy here today!

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Are You Mild, Wild or Somewhere in Between?

Find out at a MILD or WILD® Event.

MILD or WILD Trademark

There are many people at music festivals and events of every lifestyle. Here at our MILD or WILD® Events you can see it.

What is lifestyle?

LGBTQ+, open relationships, swingers, poly, kink, fetish, and many more. If you think you are wild, you probably are.

Neckace Colors and Meanings

What do I personally identify as?

Everyone has their own personal identity that is unique that you can embrace. We allow the freedom to let people know how you identify yourself in a way of acceptance.

Colored corded, beaded, name necklaces with your identifiers.

Your name is on the necklace to help everyone remember the names of the hundreds of the attendees.

Necklace Colors Copyright ©2021

The MILD or WILD® Necklace System™ cording is colored to show your level in your personal lifestyle.

Cord Colors: Meaning:
GREEN Mild / Open-minded, Partier, Flirty, or Nudist
RED Wild / Lifestyle - LGBTQ+, open relationships, swingers, poly, kink, fetish, and many more. If you think you are wild, you probably are.

Meet other at an event with a variety of necklace and bead colors, so you can find others at your level.

MILD event attendees reserve the right to become a little WILD at their own pace.

The MILD or WILD® Necklace System™ takes a lot of pressure out of social settings with large groups, and lets people find others quickly.

Make the most of your differences by letting others know how you personally identify. 

Bead Colors - Copyright ©2021

The MILD or WILD® Necklace System™ has colored beads which you can choose according to your personal interests.

Bead Color: Meaning:
PINK Same Sex
WHITE Single or Open Relationship
GREEN The Weed Bead - 420 Friendly
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